{"id":6194,"date":"2016-05-13T18:30:45","date_gmt":"2016-05-13T09:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.waseda.jp\/inst\/icc\/?p=6194"},"modified":"2016-05-17T17:55:49","modified_gmt":"2016-05-17T08:55:49","slug":"hector-fse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.waseda.jp\/inst\/icc\/news\/2016\/05\/13\/6194\/","title":{"rendered":"Hector, FSE"},"content":{"rendered":"

My personal experiences so far being gay<\/b><\/p>\n

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\u201cI’m gay\u201d. I just realized this when I was 15, even though I felt attraction for men before that time. I was very lucky to have my best friends as gay too \u2013 we came out to each other more or less at the same time. \u201cI’m gay\u201d, one of them told me. \u201cThat’s ok, because I’m gay too\u201d, I answered. And I also came out to my close straight friends, being accepted by some of them. Since a few years ago in Brazil there’s been a huge discussion about LGBT rights and I think this was decisive to make them understand my point of view and accept me.<\/p>\n

A little late, but I just came out to my parents last year (2015), taking advantadge of the fact that same-sex marriage became legalized in United States and everybody was talking about it in Facebook and TV. Mom totally supported me and said she wished me to be happy the way I am. Dad supported me as well.<\/p>\n

However, I had already suffered prejudice during high school being called by offensive words like \u201cfaggot\u201d and being treated differently sometimes.<\/p>\n

When I first came to Japan last year, I didn’t come out to anyone. For example, I’d pretend to be straight when people asked me about the type of girls I like, because I didn’t understand how it would be people’s reaction in Japan if I said something like \u201cWell, actually, I’m gay\u201d. But then I realized that doing this, I was living a lie, not who I truly was. I was living the way people expected me to live, not the way I would feel comfortable with. When I realized this, I decided to change and to be honest, which means I’ll tell anybody that I’m gay if they ask me or if necessary in any situation (when people ask me about girls, for example).<\/p>\n

I wish LGBT people’s voices could be heard by everybody. I know that, as my friends, there must be many potential straight LGBT-allies right there, they just need to hear and understand about us.<\/p>\n

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